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The Word People Add

They did not start trusting anonymous strangers because strangers are reliable. They did it because strangers are not selling.

August 9, 2026 5 min read Collins Consulting
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The conversation you are not in is the one deciding your reputation.

Somewhere in the last few years people stopped trusting search results and started adding a single word to their questions.

Not a brand. Not a publication. Reddit. A forum full of anonymous strangers arguing with each other.

They did not do it because strangers are reliable. They did it because strangers are not selling.

What the word actually means

Adding it is a small act of distrust, and it is aimed at people like us.

It says: I have read the page written to be found and I do not believe it. Show me somebody with nothing to gain.

That is worth sitting with rather than getting defensive about. Every piece of optimised, keyword-shaped, cheerfully confident content published over fifteen years taught people that the top result is the one that wanted to be there most. So they went looking for the places nobody optimises.

Why the machines are hungry for it

Because it is the one large body of text on the internet that reads like people talking rather than people publishing. Argument, correction, somebody being told they are wrong by three others, and a rough consensus at the bottom.

That is enormously more useful for training and for answering questions than another thousand pages of "Top 10 Tips For First-Time Buyers," and the money changing hands over access to it reflects that.

The corner of this that involves you

People are already discussing your market there, in threads you will never be shown by a search for your own name.

Whether a neighbourhood is worth it. Whether the schools are the reason prices are what they are, which is a conversation with fair housing edges all over it. Whether the agent they used was any good. Whether the commission was worth it, which is being relitigated in public constantly now.

Those threads are the informal reputation of your entire industry, and they are increasingly the raw material machines use to answer questions about it.

What not to do about it

Please do not go and market at them. I mean this sincerely, it will go badly.

Do not create an account to promote yourself. Do not answer a question about a neighbourhood with a pitch. Do not have somebody write posts on your behalf. Communities built specifically to be free of selling are exceptionally good at detecting selling, and the punishment for being caught is a permanent, searchable record of you being caught.

What actually works

Read them. That is the entire first step and most people skip it. What people say about your market when they think no professional is listening is the best free research available to you, and it is more honest than any survey you could commission.

Answer things without mentioning yourself. If you know the answer to somebody's question about transfer taxes, tell them the answer. Full stop. No link, no signature, no soft close. Over time being useful and identifiable is worth more than any post you could have written about yourself.

Take the criticism seriously. If the same complaint about agents in your area appears repeatedly, that is not noise, that is a brief. Fix the thing and say so on your own site.

Write the honest version yourself. The reason people go looking for strangers is that our published stuff is relentlessly upbeat. Publish something with a genuine drawback in it and watch what that does to how people treat the rest.

Any road up

The word people add is a review of our entire profession and it is not a flattering one. The useful response is not to go and colonise the place they escaped to.

It is to become the sort of source people would not feel the need to escape from.

Sources

Adapted for agents and brokers from the Floof Digital Consulting piece The Internet's Last Focus Group, which covers the same ground for a general business audience.

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